Tuesday, October 7, 2008

How to know somebody love you or not?

Below are 15 signals that will help you decide if the man or woman you are attracted to -- or are with -- loves you or not.

1. He/she shows interest in your life - asks about your day, family, friends and work; remembers whatever say and do etc.

2. He/she knows exactly what makes you smile, feel special and taken care of

3. He/she is very affectionate, attentive, sensitive, considerate and cares about your needs, wants and desires

4. He/she calls you just because he/she was thinking about you, misses you, or just felt like it etc.

5. He/she wants to spend as much with you as is possible - clears up his/her busy schedule and makes plans just for you, travels long distances just to be with you etc.

6. He/she talks to you about things he/she doesn't talk about with anybody else

7. He/she walks that special extra mile just for you - shares your interests even if he/she doesn't like what you like, puts aside what they could be doing just to talk, listen or do something for you instead etc.

8. He/she tells you how wonderful you make him/her feel and how having you in his/her life enriches it

9. He/she does small unexpected things to pleasantly surprise you- sends an email message, shows up at your workplace, gets you something you always wanted etc.

10. He/she loves and enjoys being physically close to you

11. He/she takes time to choose his/her gifts for you - regardless of the price tag

12. He/she gives without being asked and accepts from you with gratitude

13. He/she wants a future with you in it – talks about it and plans for it

14. He/she tells you he/she loves you

15. You just know it – no doubting, no questioning, no wondering, no convincing or trying to make him/her love you and no strings attached. You look into his/her eyes and you know it. Something inside of you just knows.